Comments on: How Otis Redding Can Help Our Psyches http://fogtofire.com/?p=248 Helping you get clear on why you are here. Fri, 27 Aug 2010 21:59:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Rachel http://fogtofire.com/?p=248&cpage=1#comment-2168 Rachel Fri, 23 Oct 2009 07:25:39 +0000 http://fogtofire.com/?p=248#comment-2168 Thanks so much for the comment on my blog, Sue. I'm pleased that you found that post, and our mini-workshop on the enneagram, so helpful! Tenderness is very important to me. I have a strong connection to my anger, being an enneagram Eight, so tenderness and compassion with everyone, including myself, help keep me from burning up on the inside. I wish you light on your path to finding a true, loving companion who will be available to you on all the levels you want. Thanks so much for the comment on my blog, Sue. I’m pleased that you found that post, and our mini-workshop on the enneagram, so helpful!

Tenderness is very important to me. I have a strong connection to my anger, being an enneagram Eight, so tenderness and compassion with everyone, including myself, help keep me from burning up on the inside.

I wish you light on your path to finding a true, loving companion who will be available to you on all the levels you want.

]]> By: Sue Koeller http://fogtofire.com/?p=248&cpage=1#comment-2164 Sue Koeller Wed, 21 Oct 2009 21:20:30 +0000 http://fogtofire.com/?p=248#comment-2164 Rachael, I'm trying a little tenderness today after the presentation you did last night at the Women in Transition meetup. I'm new to the meetup but was intriqued by the type 4 that I so identified with. I've taken the day off to take care of me, read all I can for now on enneagrams, retaken the Myers Brigs (was an Infj several months ago, now ISFJ. Ok, but I'm really working on self discovery once again. My 4 year relationship with a man I love, had so much fun with and felt safe with ended suddenly. He seemed and is so wonderful in so many ways but admittedly cannot make a commitment and get frightened of closeness. At 51, never married, living at home with his parents and older brother....I know there was little chance. But the affection, and laughter, companionship will be missed. So, I'm trying a little tenderness. I was angry and have tried to hang onto that anger to get through, but I'm not an angry soul. Thank you! Sue Rachael,

I’m trying a little tenderness today after the presentation you did last night at the Women in Transition meetup. I’m new to the meetup but was intriqued by the type 4 that I so identified with. I’ve taken the day off to take care of me, read all I can for now on enneagrams, retaken the Myers Brigs (was an Infj several months ago, now ISFJ. Ok, but I’m really working on self discovery once again. My 4 year relationship with a man I love, had so much fun with and felt safe with ended suddenly. He seemed and is so wonderful in so many ways but admittedly cannot make a commitment and get frightened of closeness. At 51, never married, living at home with his parents and older brother….I know there was little chance. But the affection, and laughter, companionship will be missed. So, I’m trying a little tenderness. I was angry and have tried to hang onto that anger to get through, but I’m not an angry soul. Thank you! Sue

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